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Mike McGary

When I first saw Mike McGary, in a Bob Jones video, it was love at first sight. I asked Bob if he thought Mike would be willing to get tied up for a bondage photo shoot, and I no sooner hung up the phone than Bob was calling me back to tell me Mike would love to. He came down to the city from Boston the following weekend, and when he walked into the friend’s bedroom I was using as an office, wearing a wonderful smile and a pair of beat-up hightop Converse All Stars, which he had no way of knowing I’m a sucker for, I started planning our fifth wedding anniversary.

Straitjacketed Navy Medic

Inspired by my photos of Austin tied up in his sailor suit, my friend Asicswrestone sent me this story of his recent experience tying up a young Navy medic for the first time.

Normally I don’t cruise Internet Chat Rooms, as it is always the same guys in these rooms all the time, whether it be gay.com, AOL, Recon, etc. Also, most of these same guys, tend to talk more trash then Congress. A few weeks ago while watching television, I decided to cruise a chat room. I saw a 21-year-old who I had not seen there before and struck up a conversation with him. He was very polite and after a little bit, the conversation turned to bondage. He told me his fantasy was to be tied up and played with, but he had never found anyone to do it with. We talked some more on line, and I told him to think it over and look for me again. I gave him my e-mail address, and told him to e-mail me.

The Dice Game

Picture of the Day:

[The picture above is not of the correspondent whose story I print below. Just thought you might like to see it. As for the story, it's from the excellent correspondent who introduced me to The Dice Game on his Recon Profile. If you want to contact him, his Recon screen name is knaveofx. BW]

ALBUQUERQUE, NM. I met a local top on Recon here in Abq that cruised me and we started a conversation going. Turns out he is into a lot of the same stuff I am. But I have to admit that when I told him I was into chastity and looking to break my former record of 35 days I screwed myself.

Dart in the Box

I had dinner the other night with my dear friend Dart, whom I first met over 10 years ago, when he came to me with an overwhelming need to be tied up in my box, and I found I had an overwhelming need to tie him up and put him in it. We hadn’t seen each other in several years, and it took me a little time to see in the face of the handsome topman with a shaved head and sculpted beard, the beautiful beardless youth he was when I tied him up so happily, but I did see it there as we spoke and gobbled down our Pad Thais, and we were soon talking together as if we'd seen each other only last week.

This and That, and Two Games

This

If you're into sneakers, which you probably know I am, and into bondage, which you also probably know I think is sick and deviant and to be avoided at all costs by normal men everywhere, you may want to check out my old friend asicswrestone's new blog, which primarily features pictures of guys in sneakers, often tied up, reflections on guys in sneakers and on bondage, youtube sneaker/bondage clips, etc. When asicswrestone informed me of his blog's existence a few weeks ago, I told him I wanted to wait a while before linking to him here; I wanted to make sure he had more than one posting in him. He does. So here's a link to his blog, http://asicswrestone.blogspot.com, and I'll be asking Trevor to put it up with my other favorites.

Sailor Boy

Austin came to see me about modeling in early November, 2004. I was casting for Hardhat Master at the time, and thought he’d play well with Owen Hawk; there was something rough and nasty about him, which turned me on, and he said he was basically a top. There was something about his assertiveness that also made me want to tie him up. He liked the idea, and we arranged for me to come over to his place the next afternoon. When I arrived, he greeted me at the door in his sailor suit. Is there anything better than tying up a sailor?

Here’s a few of the more straightforward pictures, before we got down and dirty.

Scary Scary

Halloween for us came early this year. On Saturday night we went with some 20 friends to Pennsylvania Eastern State Penitentiary, which was founded by Benjamin Franklin, not one of his more creditable ventures by modern standards, though it was considered a model place of penitence in its time; in the course of its long history as a prison, Eastern State held such celebrity villains as Al Capone and Willy Sutton; today, disaffected, it has the reputation for being the most famous haunted prison in the country. And I guess it probably is.

Todd

Maybe it’s because of all those pulp magazines still on the stands when I was young, showing huge-breasted swastika’d Nazi sex goddesses about to torture handsome American soldiers tightly tied in chairs, and gagged—I have one particularly vivid such cover image painted in detail on my mind, the colors as bright as on the day I saw it and was afraid to buy it, though I returned to the candy store magazine rack every day until a new issue came out and that one came down—that I’ve always had a weakness for bound young guys in uniform.    

Todd here was just out of the army when I tied him up the first time. Lee and I were the two token gay men at a hetero SM weekend up in the Poconos. Todd was a straight submissive, whose mistress had a meaner hand with a whip than I’ve ever seen on a man. As soon as we met her leading him on a leash and told her who we were, and the name of our magazine, she smiled and said, “Todd would love to be tied up for your magazine,” and Todd smiled, too, then at a nod from her went to put on his uniform. God knows why he'd brought it with him to this event, since in the course of the long weekend he never did put it on again. When he rejoined us, sexy as hell, he was still smiling, and said he was sure he could get out of whatever we put him in. He couldn’t. 

Busy Weekend

Sorry, no picture(s) today, none for the last few days, which have been extremely busy. We had a houseful of company—including a special guest from Australia—over the weekend, with tons of bondage fun, great food and conversation. As you can imagine, it kept me away from this blog, and away from the March on Washington, too, which Lee and I would otherwise have loved to attend. Hope some of you did manage to get there, and will write me about it. Many of the speeches, which we watched on TV, were very moving, and rousing calls to action.

Just to give you something to keep you busy, until I get some leisure time (to give you more to keep you busy), which probably won't be until Tuesday, here's a great story I recently found in our archives. It originally appeared in Issue 34 of Bound & Gagged, dated May/June 1993.

EA tied up, and Saturday Night Special

Not sure if I ever published these pics of this Executive Assistant tied up by a burglar who is busily robbing the other offices and will get back to do vile things to him in photos we can't  show on this clean site.