When I first saw Mike McGary, in a Bob Jones video, it was love at first sight. I asked Bob if he thought Mike would be willing to get tied up for a bondage photo shoot, and I no sooner hung up the phone than Bob was calling me back to tell me Mike would love to. He came down to the city from Boston the following weekend, and when he walked into the friend’s bedroom I was using as an office, wearing a wonderful smile and a pair of beat-up hightop Converse All Stars, which he had no way of knowing I’m a sucker for, I started planning our fifth wedding anniversary.





